What are your thoughts when it comes to full swaps? Same room or different room? And why?



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Usually for us it's same room. But if we are comfortable enough, mostly if its not the first time with said couple, we will do separate room.
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Separate or same room. We prefer separate room more though. Because we are more relaxed, but it depends on the comfort level.
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We have done same room and separate rooms and both are good. Depends on who we are with and the comfort levels.
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I'm with Calgarylovers, I love seeing her get pleased by someone else.
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Hmm with all this watching guess other half not haveing fun
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it all depends on the couple you are with. I prefer same room to start and then branch off to separate rooms because I think when we are by ourselves in another room there is more freedom and if you are not completely turned on by someone else fucking your spouse its a nice way to swing and not have that jealousy factor. Same room is nice too once you've done the swinging thing for awhile and are comfortable with the idea of your partner being with someone else. It allows for the females to play with each other more and for more swapping action to take place and of course double blowjobs, you can't go wrong with that lol.
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We are down for anything
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We like both full swap same room different room it doesn't matter
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We always had same room, different beds. The reason we began to swing was the joy of watching each other having fun.
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we like same room..like to see each other enjoy and enjoyed.
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For us it is full swap. Depending on the type of crowd it may be same room or it may be different. We just make sure that we know where and with who each other is with.
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same room or different room no matter all good for us.
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an female once told me who has been swinging for long time she said ( i cant answer that for you because you all ready know the answer :)
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Definitely same room full swaps. Part of our enjoyment of sex with others is seeing each other having a good time. Hearing the sounds from another pair playing adds to the experience. Now, having said that, after we've been with another couple a few times and have truly become friends, it's no big deal if we play seperately; i.e., one pair wants to soak in the pool a while longer while the other heads to a bed to have fun!
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We have enjoyed same room but we definitely prefer separate rooms. Less distraction, more intimate and easier to focus of the fun at hand.
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In the beginning, we prefer same room, but enjoy the separate room play for the same reasons of jnt4fun!~ Hearing your partner in another room allows you to visualize what they are doing/being done to them; while you get to enjoy your time with true focus!!!!
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Never have swaps but my wife trade some in single room
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Same room we like to see each other having fun and playing with the female together.
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We really get off on seeing nd hearing eachouther nd group play. Same room for us!!
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As always different strokes for different folks. Some people prefer same room due to the fact that they want to watch their sig. other in action. We have met couples who wanted to have different rooms for a few reasons, not wanting to be distracted, new to the scene and not sure if they wanted their sig. other to watch them. There are many reasons for same room and many for other room. Best thing is to respect how others feel, thus cpls should chat about such things and get a "feel" for how the others seem to present this. Newbies are esp shy and some may feel that they should "just do romans do" but let them know that everyones opinion matters and that if it isn't clear then maybe a later date would be better. We started out as a different room cpl but the cpl we met wanted same room. It was uncomfortable but we enjoyed it. Others may not enjoy and it may turn them off to the lifestyle. When in doubt, chat it out... lol
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Same room cause we want to watch our partner enjoy themselves, it's part of the whole erotic experience
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Our preference is same room. But just like having a bi lady, it's our preference, not our rule. We love seeing each other pleased by others.
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we have done both but prefer same room as its exciting and exhilarating to watch and be watched either together or with different partners
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It's all about comfort. Some people are just not comfortable seeing their mate with some else, especially first timers. Being in seperate rooms gives them a higher comfort level which translates to more enjoyment.
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lol same room always so i can see :)
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We like same room because we also like more of group type play, adding the other couple to us and us to them instead of a you look after her, he will look after me type deal, not saying that there isnt any separated play but for us its funner together. Mind you this has drastically changed from what we thought we wanted when we started lol
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We recommend that if you do full swaps do it same room(at least until you are comfortable) and the added bonus of watching makes it better.
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Definitely same room! We like to watch each other with someone else to see and hear everything. We've done seperate rooms with people we get with on a regular basis, just for a change, but still prefer same room for most of the activity.
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We are comfortable with either but some nights need we both like different room some time we leve the door open so who ever want to play can
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i think that full swaps are ok because it gives you the chance to explore with others
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Its all good. As already noted it depends on comfort level of persons involved. As a single male, always best in same room, LOL. However even when I have a friend with to play, I prefer same room but again its all good.
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We always prefer same room. Nothing turns us on more than watching and hearing your partner being pleased by another lover :)
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same room way more fun to be with you girl
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We like same room so we can enjoy watching each other but separate rooms have their advantages as well for exercising the imagination.
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We love both :)
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I like same room , so I can here the wife and see her injoying herself.
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We enjoy both. Depends on who we are with. Group is wonderful but sometimes you just want that someone all to yourself for better concentration. Some of our best time have been all in the same room, bed, group/orgy style
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We've always been same room, same bed. We enjoy watching each other having fun with their lover, while being able to reach out and touch one another. We're bi-comfortable in a group play setting, so we love orgies! If there's some incidental girl-play, or male-play; or some MFM or FMF, that's OK too!
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We always prefer full, same room. It is a much more erotic experience when everyone can see and hear. We have some couples we are comfortable enough with for separate room, but still prefer to be together.
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It boils down to what ever the couple is comfortable with, if you are completely secure in your relationship then he or she is just having sex, nothing else.
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Full swap is usually best for us, separate room can be really fun or even swapping partners for a few hours can be interesting as well...(love that concept) if we know the couple well enough "independent" visits are something to look at as well..... just our preferences.
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Same room is good. Connected with others while still seeing your partner. Different rooms can be good. Put your imagination to work on what your partner is doing. Talk about it later.
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Same room, We like to watch plus she always knows I have her back.
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same room
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same room just way more fun
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Maybe cause we're new but we like the same room cause we enjoy watching the other being pleased
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We are up for either.
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It's nice to experience both. Obviously it depends on your playmates, but some nights its sexy to trade glances with your spouse as you're screwing other people, and other nights it's great to get that one-on-one connection with the partner you are playing with. Though my same room preference is that if we are doing same room it's more of a free-for-all than a plain swap.
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Full swap because I like a bit of voyeurism. I enjoy watching John with another woman and John enjoys watching me. The only time it works for me in a separate room is with a female. -- Debbie
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gotta be same room, been there done that.
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Wld truly like to find like minded ppl that cld hav fun everywhere.
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Same room is the basis of our playtime. We prefer to share the view
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We have tried both and find different rooms allows us to get more creative with our new partners as we are not worried about what each other is doing. Also enjoy the same room as you get to watch a show somewhat.
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We like same room because it ultimately about us. Even with dif partners it turns us own to watch
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We are a full swap same room. It the pleasure we get from each other that is so great and sexual.
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we are good in the same room together and get excited watching each other get pleasured from others,, and after we know each other for awhile and feel comfortable with a couple or two that had several encounters with us then yes we would do separate rooms because it gives us time to be creative with another person... we think everyone has a little secret side they want to express to another then share it with your own spouse.
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For now, same room... like to see, feel, touch, so on... with lots of FUN! and EXCITEMENT and whatever flows... must have chemistry with other couple. We had our FIRST one! Love it...
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We love to do it as a group get everyone in two it
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its something your suppose to do as a couple so separate rooms kind of defeats that just my thought tho have fun :)
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Love same room its so hot watching someone fuck us so hot
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We are full swap and are ok with either same room or separate. It depends on the comfort level between the couples.
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We prefer same room as we love to see each other be pleasured but we are open to separate room also
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We prefer same room when we do full swap, as we both enjoy watching the other being pleasured by the other couple.
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I like in driffent rooms like to hear her scream and moon gets me rock hard
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Same room indeed! Why? Because watching others is the majority of the pleasure.
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We are full swap. We are ok with same room or different room. It really depends upon the mood and the other couples needs at the time.
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Same room. A lot of the pleasure and excitement comes from seeing (and hearing) each other being pleasured. Plus the foreplay is more fun with more people involved at once.
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It works either way for us depending on the location and participants. We are comfortable with our playmates. I love to see her pleasured and listen to her. There are times when one of us may not be in the mood to play and the other gets to enjoy.
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same room is best so there are no suprizes later on that could cause issues between the couple. may be ok in different rooms it is a long term thing
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We enjoy full swap same room . We like to watch each other enjoying the moment. But once we get to know the couple after playing a few times different rooms are a possibility.
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We are a full swap couple that prefers same room but have done separate but only with couples that we trust and have known for time. We also like same room because we find it highly erotic seeing each other having fun with others.
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We prefer separate rooms, but are respectful of the feelings of those we play with...
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personally i like same room. I like to watch
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i think if your comfortableit can go both ways maybe start out all 4 then split off when or if you feel like it . I love starting out all four and then go off to singles to have some one on one time
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either way is fine with us
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if you cant please you wife send her to diff room with stranger good answer lol
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We have done both but prefer same room although we have done separate rooms but only with couples that we completely trust (more of a safety issue). The main reason we like same room is that we find it highly erotic to look over and watch the other enjoying themselves and it is also easier to start threesomes, foursomes...when everyone is in the same room/bed
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I like same room. Half the excitement of swinging is seeing your partner with another person. Seeing the interaction is why I love the lifestyle.
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Love to see the pleasure on my partners face so for me I like same room.
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We also like the sep. thing. Its much more intense.
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Personally, we are a same room full swap couple. we both like to hear and watch one another.
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