Well its been a while but we're back and have seen some familiar people but we are still having some trouble finding people in our area that my better half and I can agree on. Not trying to sound stuck up or snobby in any way, we just want to have some kind of attraction to our playmates. Wither it be physical or mentally. Have you ever had difficulties finding a partner or partners that meet your requirements, or is this something that is kinda ridiculous to have as part of our "check list" when looking for a partner(s)? Please Comment below with your thoughts, experience or suggestions. Thanks.

Well its been a while but we're back and have seen some familiar people but we are still having some trouble finding people in our area that my better half and I can agree on. Not trying to sound stuck up or snobby in any way, we just want to have some kind of attraction to our playmates. Wither it be physical or mentally. Have you ever had difficulties finding a partner or partners that meet your requirements, or is this something that is kinda ridiculous to have as part of our "check list" when looking for a partner(s)? Please Comment below with your thoughts, experience or suggestions. Thanks.

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It's not ridiculous at all. You both know what you like and it's not always easy to find others who may fit your preferences. Best advice we can give is to review your preferences and see if you can or are willing to step out of the boundaries you have set. Another thing that may help is expanding the distance (area) upon which you are looking. Say you're looking for those within an hour (or miles) radius of travel, you can expand your search to a greater distance, thereby increasing your best chances to find someone who matches your preferences. Good Luck.
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No it not but don't pass up a good time looking for a great time. Decide if it a person the package or both. But the joy is looking. You mite pass up the ones that will fill all your dream. Sometime it take awhile. Happy hunting!
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Me and wifey the same way
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@mskk Nice! We got that covered for pretty much any preference. Length, girth, firmness and jelly swinging around over your headness! Haha we got it all!
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Agree that you need to be stimulated either physically or mentally to someone, and finding ones that you both have that desire for is not always easy. But as in life there is compromise, don't brush someone off to quickly. Ask yourself does this person bring some sort or kinky fetishes, or plays out some fantasy your partner wishes to experience? But it's all a balance that only the two of you can decide upon. Good luck with your adventures!!
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I would kept your check list everyone has one if they will admit it are not! Try finding people outside your normal and see how many of your items on your checklist they can match! But that kind of relationship take work it don't just happen! But it can be fun hunting such a person or person. There still a lot of talkers and no action people on here. Kept a notes on your CP so you can kept tract of them. Hope you fine what your looking for!
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We’ve not had the pleasure of this lifestyle yet but in our discussions we both agreed that is a requirement also. It’s not strictly a physical thing. There has to something about them that sparks an interest. My first ‘girl crush’ wasn’t exactly pretty physically but she was/is an awesome person in general.
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The fact that you have a checklist says it all. This is not a grocery store it is a place to meet people. You have to meet them if you are ever going to have sex with them. It's ok to meet people and not have sex with them. You cannot have to many friends in the LS. They may turn you on to someone they know that works for everyone, you never know.
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