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do u find it strange 4 a man in a comitted relationship 2 eant 2 suck cock? |
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IMO,No stranger than wanting to be with anyone else.
My hubby says it is strange that any man would want to suck cock |
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well am BI so I don't think its strange nor do I think its strange that a woman wants to eat pussy to each his own some one some were thinks some ones strange for any thing they mite like to do |
RE: sucking cock
Not really into it unless a woman is there too. Then it becomes a huge turn on. |
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I see nothing strange about it then it is strange for a woman to eat another woman's pussy |
RE: sucking cock
No I don't think it strange either. |
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I dont its stange if there is a woman present - if a guy was about to fuck my wife - i would suck his cock - would love to share sucking a cock with my wife. |
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I don't thinks its strange..but never having done it I really dont know if I could or not. I guess its like most things..if your comfortable and really into the people or person that your with, and they turn you on..are what you like..then maybe it's not so hard. Same for eating pussy..I as a pussylover, enjoy most of them, but have encountered some I wouldn't go near with the proverbial 10 foot pole. |
RE: sucking cock
Well, my thoughts are simple.... If two women can go down on each other, then why can't two men?
It all depends on what the night brings, the vibes that are projected and what type of situation you are swinging in. If in an open room, I'm not sure what a response from others would be; but in an intimate setting it would be an amazing sharing experience I'm sure.
Todd and I as a couple are NOT interested in that stuff, the closest to cock he gets is in DP (and I'm still waiting for that) But if given the opportunity to watch it, I'd be game!
Sharon |
RE: sucking cock
I figure if its OK for me to expect a woman to go down on me and take my cum, then why on earth would I be afraid to do the same? That's certainly true for eating pussy (mmm) but why would it not also be true for sucking cock? |
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I do not understand why two men is still so socially unacceptable. Women are free to explore each other, why should the same not be extended for men.
It would be a real turn on for me to watch. |
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i think it is f... gross to see 2 men getting it on, if you are a gay or bi-man i guess it is ok . but for a hetrosexual like my self, i will all ways prefer two woman getting it on and myself in the middle.. |
RE: sucking cock
We don't find it strange, just another personal preference. Some people like blonds, some like huge asses ... some like cock. Whatever floats your boat. |
RE: sucking cock
This is one of those surviving taboos. We have all gotten comfortable with two women but two males is very upsetting to some people. It all comes down to what you are ok with doing, seeing, or participating in. |
RE: sucking cock
We think that if everyone is cool with it, then why not? Everyone has different turn ons and offs ( just mention BDSM play and see how many people go ewwwww and run, even within this community!) and as long as everyone is comfortable with the situation, go for it and ENJOY! Lifes too dang short as it is to be stuck up on things! For us, personally, we have done this once b4 with another couple (shared orally) and it was one of the most smokin things we have ever done IMHO! |
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i find it strange if a guy doesnt like the taste of his own cum. i suck his juices and oral him after sex with me and swallow, hello. |
RE: sucking cock
If the persons you are with are all comfortable with it, why not. And I agree with the other posters- Everyone wants to see two women-why not two men? |
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there is just something about two women togather, it is like a work of art, a fine sculture or painting. two men is unnatural, there is nothing sexy about 2 men sucking one another off, or any thing else. point taking i am a heterosexual, not a homosexuaul,and if that is what the want to do in there on privacy great. i do not want to see it, and please kkep it away from us... |
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That would suggest that you don't like getting oral sex - but I would bet that is not the case at all. Why then would you have a strong revulsion to male / male intimacy? I believe extreme responses are learned and are not innate. Assuming that is correct, what led to your extreme feelings? Is it a revulsion of the taste of semen? Or are you responding to a fear of stigma you learned as a child? That pounded me for many years and can still rear its head from time to time. |
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Excellent response and great question. I agree I think it is a learned response and fear of ones own sexuality. I hope in my childrens future is a time where all the stigmas are gone and everyone is free to express and explore their own sexuality fully without fear of reprecussions and social stigmas. |
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cute little girl you got it ive never sucked a mans cock but ive had mine sucked by a man the cum flowed like water |
RE: sucking cock
As the male 1/2 of a bi couple,I say drmrs2010 is entitled to his opinion just like everyone else.But I will also say that just because I'm bi in a bisexual situation,I can also be straight in a straight situation.Just because someone is a bi male is no reason for anyone to not want to get to know him(or them).If we're all adults here,then we should all respect everyones boundries,and only play straight if thats their choice.I'd hate to miss out on a great friendship just because someone else has different sexual choices than me.
Russ |
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Heres a twist on the topic... In our relationship where she is Bi and loves strap-on play with our playmates, she equally enjoys having him suck her "cock". |
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25/f and 28/m couple here and too many people if u ask me concentrate on OMG male or female and guys freak out over oral with a man. WHY cant sex be sex a nut be a nut and fun be fun i agree with the factor of a woman being present but it shouldnt be a problem either way hell if anything if ur worried about if ur bi or gay then u may as well worry about her thoughts more the guy is there for the same thing u are a nut maybe a experience or fantasy/desire.....anyone who dont agree with men sucking cock if they want... u absolutely need to open ur eyes to the world and see ITS SEX PERIOD... ur bi or gay if u CONSTANTLY want men or are attracted physically wanting to be sensual or intimate., if u can suck a dick get ur nut from it too and go on in life fucking women u were horny and did what any reasonable human would got u a nut/relief |
RE: sucking cock
I think Russ is on the right track.
When you get a vehement response it is typically a form of homophobia and it *is* a phobia. It's a reality of how most men have been brought up tho swingers maybe a little more enlightened but you still see it.
Most men have been trained throughout their life at how bad male/male contact is. Things have improved a great deal but even among swingers you often see it in subtle ways, in profiles: Her -bi, him, "very straight"; in the double standard that often exists for women vs. men about acceptable behavior.
Logic has little to do with it. For some men it is acceptable/sexy for a woman to suck cock & take a load of cum, that same man is often repulsed by the idea of doing that themselves, despite asking their partner to do it on a regular basis.
If it doesn't turn you on, fine, there are plenty of things that don't turn me on. But it's no reason to get bent or uptight about.
D & C |
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I think that women are accepting to it but its men that cant accept it. Im not saying all men should do it. Too many men are hung up on what make a man traditionaly. II agree with Russ. I hope everyone is meeting with respectful people. If the people we meet respect us they will respect our boundaries. |
RE: sucking cock
I think this is also an age issue. My girlfriend is under 30 and finds male to male action very erotic. She is sees it as the same as two females making out or having sex. If she has sex with another woman, in part, because it is a fantasy of mine, then I should be OK with sexual contact with another male. Sounds fair. |
RE: sucking cock
Not really, it is all apart of having sex and enjoying the sexual experience. With us it was my idea and he ended up enjoying it and does a hell of a job I might say. Besides, it really turns me on to watch it. |
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