so when you get someone just trying to get photos, how do you put an end to it? We don't have any photos here until we have a potential contact..Is that weird?

so when you get someone just trying to get photos, how do you put an end to it? We don't have any photos here until we have a potential contact..Is that weird?

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I would say you are hurting yourself by not having anything. On this site itís not as important, as it seems this sites way over run on picture seekers with real players scattered about. But on other sites I donít even dive into the profile to check them out unless they have photos. Some people only connect if the profile has unblurred face pics. Thatís not a criterion for me, I respect your need for anonymity. But if you have zero pics, that screams not real to me. In fact few photos says the same. Bump that ďnot interestedĒ up a notch if the only photo is some scenery with no people in it. Iíve seen a mountain before. I live on one. Iíve seen a river valley, and a beautiful beach and sunset. I donít want to get naked and frisky with any of those.
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But thatís just one memberís opinion.
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If someone is just after photos, they donít hide it well. If I suspect that I stop sharing my private album and may even block them. My concern is my career, which would survive, or my wifeís, which likely wouldnít, being a teacher. Thatís also why NO sex pics or vids that have actual nudity, sex, or even provocative poses and clothing, are sent unblurred, unless we have already met and played.
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