Question, my wife and me are interested in a threesome with another guy but she’s left it up to me to choose the guy, how do y’all go about asking other guys and bringing up the subject? Any thoughts and help is appreciated she picked the last two so now it’s my turn



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Depends on if you will be asking in person or online.
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If online I'd suggest you introduce yourself, give some information about the 2 of you and direct them to your profile. Make sure that you've read their profile and know what they are looking for. Politely ask if it's something that they'd be interested in to get back to you with some more information about themselves or questions.
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A woman I know wants a serial GB, and asked me to pick out the guys. She gets them one at a time, will be blind folded, and wants never to know who they are.
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Ask him first how open minded he is . Try and find out if they’ve been in a situation like that before, you would be surprised how many guys are just shy about bringing it up . You have to be the one , no regrets ;)
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Our guy has been friends with her for years. They had talked about it then my wife brought it up to me. I was good with it. I met him alone for drinks and we had a nice talk. Set some ground rules for how to proceed. It's been a great experience. Your situation is different in that you are asking a guy who is probably not expecting to be asked. I would definitely go with someone you absolutely trust so much that even if he declines he wont gossip about it.
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pick out the guy ok. but let your talk to him too .
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