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I need some advice friends! How do I get my husband on board with all the fantasies I have of becoming a part of the lifestyle? We have almost been married a year, but have been together for about 4 years. He's told me he is concerned one of us could develop unwanted feelings for someone we play with, and that may potentially damage our relationship. I understand where he's coming from, but at the same time I feel we have built enough trust and love each other so much that it would never be a problem. I would never want him to be uncomfortable or do anything he's not ready for, but I'm DYING to have an experience at least once! Where do I go from here?!
We will be in Calgary on August 23. Any suggestions on where to go?
What is the most interesting toy(dildo or vibrator) that you have been pleasantly surprised with? We have many toys we barely use anymore, as most are similar to each other.
So I want some opinions and feedback here. My girlfriend and I are new to all this and have yet to do anything. We are not jealous, worried, or concerned about the other with another person. It is silly really, we are more self-conscious of our bodies. I can't or rather won't bring up her issues with herself since they are well...hers and she can do this if she feels the need. I can honestly say that do not I feel as if I am unattractive. Rather it is my size (wow big shocker there right?) like most other men. I am in no way BIG, I am average to small I would say. SO.... Does it matter? I have never had a problem giving my GF or any other woman multiple orgasms. But, I have always feel like with just a few more inches (Length
Is there a certain something you have been wanting to try but not sure how to approach the topic with your partner Or the topic just has not come up? Well now's your chance! Tell us what your fantasy is :)
What are your thoughts when it comes to full swaps? Same room or different room? And why?
All booked for New Horizons this saturday! First time going to a club! Any suggestions?
It's National Orgasm Day... who is up for video chat and cumming on cam? Thinking we all need to make a scheduled date for 8 pm EST in the chatroom tonight. Who's game?
Why is Bi play with the females so important to so many couples? We have actually been told, why are you in the lifestyle if she isn't bi, How do you go about hooking up? It seems to us that so many men really don't know how to play if the women don't play first. What's with this? It also seems it's more popular in the northeast.
Hi Everyone, we are heading to our first group party. Any recommendations of what to expect? Any thing we should look out for? We have limited experience and most of our meets have been with couples. We are excited and nervous at the same time.
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