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how to initiate anal sex
My wife has not and will not have anal sex..what is the best way to initiate? swing with anal partners? |
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RE: how to initiate anal sex
What is her concerns? Pain, cleanliness? Alot of people(men included) have fears of anal. If she was open to it, and she is very clean back there(most women are) start by rimming her, licking, kissing, ect. when shes extremely horned upm start slowly with a WELL LUBED finger and trimmed nails, and work a small portion in while licking her pussy. Don't just jam it in, give her time to get used to it. then just very gradually over time, work more fingers and or maybe even a small vibrator in there. Chances are she will love it. When it comes time and she or he is ready, after the foreplay, start by easing urself in slowly and let her tell you whats comfortable for her. Ive found once she has you in past the rim, and fully in deep, they love it if you grond and pump slowly. Not a fast pumping action. There are valid concerns for people, but they are easily talked about and remedied thru talk and gentle foreplay. At least thats our take on it. My wife had never done it before me, and once I got in, she cant get enough. |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
its up to the women if she wants anal |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
Yes, I agree. Thanks for expanding my opinion. Every woman is different and yes..absolutely you have to let her make the final say, as my wife wishes I to be the only one back there as well. |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
my boyfriend is huge compared to the other men ive had anal with and it scared me at first he went slow and let me call all the shots but now with lube i want it about two or three times a week |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
well we like anal fun wife so far only a toy me i have had real thing both enjoy it |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
Lots of lube lots of foreplay and lots of patients !! |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
Well if she says absolutely not, you should drop it until she brings the idea up.
sharon |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
First let us say that if she says no way, You will probably never get there by pushing or pestering her about it, She doesn't want to be forced or pressured. As to the swing part some people only will do anal with thier partner. You could try just touching to start. If she does agree to try, Lots and lots of lube, then let her be in control, if she changes her mind or says stop...STOP. Another thing you can try is make sure she is extremely turned on before you even try. Have read several things about positions for anal Most say her on her back is the least painful, different for every one though. Good luck and hope all goes well.
Dave and Mary |
RE: how to initiate anal sex
I had never had anal sex until my husband and had heard some bad stories about it. He didn't pester me about it but simply started licking it and rimming it then eventually stuck the tip of his fnger in there until we got to the point where he could put it all the way in. I totally agree with the fact that if she says stop, then stop or you'll never get near there again, thats a trust thing you have to have with your partner. GOOD LUCK! |
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