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What kind of personality?

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What kind of personality?

What kind of personality does everyone have? Are you shy, straight to the point, or take your time to get to know someone? Everyone is different, we have talked to shy people & straight forward people (I'm not saying that is a bad thing, it cuts thru the bs).

I guess we all have multiple personalities, depending on who we are talking too, huh? Well, for me, I ain't shy....I know, big surprise lol

But I was just wondering, if anyone would like to share, are you a person or (cpl) that is shy & let's the other person or (cpl) start the ball rolling? Or are you the type of person that says how they feel & strikes up a conversation?

Was just wondering, how do ya know if shy people or (cpls) are interested in ya? They might send some flirts & you flirt back.....Give us your thoughts....xoxo Shirley

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RE: What kind of personality?
I am a pretty straight forward person, I don't like dancing around things and trying to figure out what people are thinking. just spit it out

RE: What kind of personality?
Me, too sweeties....I say what's on my mind....if people like it or not, I DON'T sugar coat it!! Ya know....I'm not disrespectful or mean any bad feelings towards anyone, but I say what's on my mind... xoxo Shirley

RE: What kind of personality?
Since we're just starting out, I'm personally holding back from my normal outgoing personality a lot. I'm just kind of feeling things out at this point, and trying to figure out where the lines are drawn... lol... I don't want to go stepping on toes or giving TMI (more info than someone wants) about anything, so I'm just kinda keeping quiet for a while. :)

I think once I get more comfortable, I'd be more likely to make a "first move", but even though I'm outgoing in person, I'm still submissive in the bedroom... lol... so I don't know.

J is just hardly ever online unless I'm showing him a profile or something... but he's more of the "tell it like it is" type. haha... maybe we should switch personalities for a while. :P

Although I'm "shy" about making a first move whether here or anywhere else, it's not like I'm a total introvert. lol... like, this for example. You asked a question and I'm rambling on and on! lol... but would I have posed a question on my own? probably not.

RE: What kind of personality?
You're doing just fine sweetie!! It takes time to feel comfortable in this lifestyle but, you're off to a great start. xoxo Shirley

RE: What kind of personality?
Jeff... Im a pretty straight forward person depending on who Im talking to and what I know of them.The more I know the more I talk LOL and sometimes maybe a bit to much

Geo.... I am a shy person I go by Jeff's lead

RE: What kind of personality?
Well, I'm a talker, too Jeff lol Sometimes my mouth is in overdrive lmao xoxo Shirley

RE: What kind of personality?
I think we all have a little of everthing at some point. We can be shy, yet once we warm up to ya, lets the games begin..I would say Im more outgoing than Hot Tater..But I think thats just because I feel Ive gotten more repect from everyone in life than be a wallflower. As we get older..sometimes we realize its just a thang..lets party!!

RE: What kind of personality?
Shirley I know what you mean by being in overdrive rofl but hey its who I am and I never mean any harm because Im a joker by nature

RE: What kind of personality?
I love a :joker: Having fun & laughing...until it's time to get serious & down to some serious play time :sexywink: xoxo Shirley

RE: What kind of personality?
I am a mixture of both. Very shy in new situations with strangers however those that know me can't see me ever being that way. So far at clubs I have been very reserved, do not want to give anyone the wrong impression, just been people watching and feeling things out. Each time I get a little bolder. Feel the fear and do it anyway

RE: What kind of personality?
We are both shy so this has been a slow road for us. She will be very open after a few drinks but "doesn't know what to say" in an im situation or an first meeting. I am more open online but in a party I am more an observer.

This makes it very tough for us to hook up with anyone.

RE: What kind of personality?
honestly I'm not to sure where I stand. normally I'm a very straight forward person normally but with people I don't know I'm mostly quiet and I never instigate. personally even I think its weird

M

RE: What kind of personality?
Well for me Shirley, I am outgoing with people and been known to be the life of the party. UNLESS I think there might be a sex connection then I get all shy or reserved. (not sure why) It might be because of being afraid of rejection or something. so I let the the people or female start the ball rolling. I wish I was the other way, because I know I miss alot by not making the first move.

Ducky

RE: What kind of personality?
I've read that about you, Ken!! Ok, It's time u changed that thinking!! Take charge of me!!! Ok you're the bull & I'm the....cow(that don't fit me) lmao Oh well, u got the meaning! Would like to hear what words you would say to me to get me aroused, not that I wouldn't be already! But enhance the experience, woohoo!! xoxo Shirley

RE: What kind of personality?
OHHHHHHHH helllllll yesssssss Shirley.
I would love to hear them words hehe (will give me the upper hand) lol lol lol :kiss:

Ya know someday (hopefully soon) I will get a job in your area then I can finally meet you and Clark in person. I think that would be great,you two sound liike my kind of laid back happy go lucky people. (now if I can only convince the tator to drink good beer) lol lol. :biggrin: :sixtynine: :funaward:

Ken = your bathtime toy. lol the duck

RE: What kind of personality?
For me, I think it depends on the environment I am in. I can guarantee that I will always say hi and wave when I know you, and will never miss an opportunity for a hug or kiss.. But in some situations I am more of a watcher and like to observe quietly; taking the scene in. The BIG however is once a couple drinks have been served to me I will not shut my trap (either of them) lmao

RE: What kind of personality?
Yuppers, that we are, hun! Just simple people here! You better work hard on finding a job near us!! Woohoo! We would love to meet ya, too!!

As far as Tator switching to another beer well, you'll have to talk to him about that!!!

Dang, I just got out of the shower!! Hehehe....
kisses Shirley

RE: What kind of personality?
Well in our situation the Mr is the social butterfly, he can talk and tell you stories all night but me on the other hand I am shy at first until I feel comfortable with whom ever we are meeting up with. Besides I enjoy listening to his life stories.

RE: What kind of personality?
we are very laid-back, welcoming to all those we meet, won't take shit off anyone, and we aim to please. I can be a little shy at times and need a little prodding to move things along but mostly I am a hot, horny, slutty housewife who likes to fuck and play. So bring it on! (Oh, I am tame when my kids are around or at work but the rest of the time a slut I am1)

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