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Should Ya Be Friends First
Ok, alot of talk about becoming friends first & then see where it goes. This is how we feel about the subject & Tator can disagree with me & some others may also....my opinion is, if we just wanna a f--ky f--ky...we can go to a Bar lol We want to meet people that are really into the lifestyle. People that can share stories about their travels & adventures. I need to talk to someone & get to know them, 'What they like & dislike', or even, common interest between both parties...So for me, YES 'FRIENDS FIRST'....xoxo Shirley |
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RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Well I think becoming friends is the way to be,it's kinda awkward to play when you don't like the other people. So how have you ans Clark been?? SugarBear. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Being friends might be nice...but finding people you are interested in sexually and as friends could be tough. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Maybe so TC1, but we like to talk to people, at least I do...I agree, finding the right cpl or person can be challenging..That's why we become friends and talk to people..COMMUNICATION is the key..I think, the more you get to know people, the more you will understand what they (him, her or them) are about. And adding stuff in your profile could help, too. Just my opinion Shirley |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Damn without finding out if you have something in common is like : just fuck me Suck and leave the money on the table |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Absolutely. The zipless fuck doesn't work.
Friendship doesn't mean "bossom buddies" either.
The two extremes have a mid point, that is, people have had time to check it out. Chemistry/Kismet is everything. If it ain't there, you might as well stay home. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
we think you should have a friendship. if theres no "connection"...we wont play with ya. Shirley hits the bullseye on this one. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Just to weigh in on this, lets be honest..
When you head out to meet for the first time, everyone has rules. Can't tell you how many times we have been guilty of making the statement "looking for friends first" had a great time with the clothes on, and then, everyone drifted away..
After a recent discussion on a few things, the lovelier part of us, made the statement, about eliminating the nervous part and just doing it..
Might lead to a whole new topic, but sometimes we spend crutial time building a relationship, when it could be built on exactly what we are all here for.. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
We agree that part of that is true, we think there should be at least a friendship..if you just want to sex people, you would just go anywhere for that. Our impression is that true swingers want friendship as well as the sex. For us, just because you may have a sexy body doesnt mean we want to fuck you. Isnt that what prostitution is?? We found that there are some very nice people here and then there are some that just want to befriend you and have no other contact...are they just trying to pad their "friends list"?? We love to be friends with anyone, but if there is no "friendliness" vibe going on..probably ought to just go your own way. Contact is nice to have.. even if its just a chat or hello once in awhile as we have made friends with couples that we may or may never meet because of the distance involved, but for us its possible because we do love to travel when we can and I personally have been by many of the places people live because of my job. I think its neat that we see people and can say..cool..weve been to that town. We think if one wants to just fuck, they should just go to a site that provides just that service. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
I think it is a good idea to communicate several times before actually meeting to see if you share common interests. Once you meet if there is an attraction, things usually happen quickly. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Yes they do hun...woohoo!! :sexywink: xoxo Shirley |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
It depends on what you're looking for. What kind of mood you're in. There's nothing wrong with either approach. You should feel comfortable and safe though. |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
s i think becoming friends is best this way u know what u r dealing with |
RE: Should Ya Be Friends First
Totally agree with y'all :bigkiss: Shirley |
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