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Does anyone not just meet, greet, fuck and go anymore?? Why does everybody want to be "friends" first? Don't need to bring friendship into it? Please respond if you agree.


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I disagree, I didn't fuck strangers when I was single and have no interest in doing it now

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what if you agree and disagree? LOL they are fun but also its good to have some you are friends with as well

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We enjoy friendships. Friends with benefits are even better. We actually prefer local swing friends rather than out-of-towners.

We prefer house parties over clubs, as we can meet people more easily.

Does that make us odd?

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We agree. There does have to be an easy, comfortable, non-uptight feeling, but the Getting to be friends" first, NO. If you're a swinger for real, you're in it for the sex. If you must be friends before you fuck, go join a "friendship" site, I'm sure there are some. If you want SEX, and are a REAL swinger, then you can have "SEX WITH INDIFFERENCE", and not be "friends first", and please don't tell me you go to swingers club and waste peoples time looking for "friends first"!!!! Stay home, find frinends first in the site and let the rest if us meet real swingers and have fun, OK?

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These comments bring to mind the familiar situation where a guy is young and his teen GF doesn't want to give it up unless she (and you) are in love. Because to do otherwise (in her mind anyway) would mean that (to put it nicely) she was not a good person. So what do the guys do? They tell her they love her. It seems to me that just like that teen virgin in my analogy, some people are kidding themselves. While it doesn't take long to decide if you like someone and are comfortable with them, tell me, how long does it take to truly become friends with someone? You know a real friend. And how many times do you meet and hang-out before you hit the sack? Consider that and more....I know from experience that I have never-ever met the single or the couple that did not want to fuck on the first meeting. And yes, before I get flamed, I am sure that has and is not everyone's Else's experience. I am speaking from my experience. I am there to fuck; and if I like you, and I feel comfortable, I will fuck you. No need for pretense.

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I agree if ur a swinger it should be hey lets fuck not lets get drinks then dinner if we like you then we can fuck nah bullshit.Friendship yea rite who can you trust these days as a friend!

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MAY I SAY A HAPPY MEDIUM WOULD BE NICE SUPRISED THIS DIDNT OPEN A WHOLE CAN OF WORMS HAVE A GREAT DAY
ROB

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When I was a single swinger I always made sure that I knew the people I was surrounded by, otherwise going into a scene of strangers it could lead to bad experiences. You don't have to be "best friends" but you do need to be able to trust the other person enough to know they are decent people. Going into a "fuck and go" type of situation, you NEVER know what you will be leaving with, you may end up with different friends like communicable diseases etc.
That is why Swinger Parties are best to attend and safe for the most part because the people who throw them have a reputation to keep up :)

Sharon

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Just cuz u meet someone and "get to know them" doesn't give you any more insight as to what "diseases" or whatever, that they may have. You are always taking a chance, no matter if you get to know the person or not. Anyone can say they are dd free, and you will never know if it's true or not. Since it's all about sex, friendship has no place in it, in our opinion.

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I think if you meet for drinks or dinner you can usually tell if you want to fuck on first meeting or if you want to wait. If we hit it off and all are agreeable we have no problem fucking on first meeting but we have met some that we wouldn't!

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When it comes to fucking, anyone can hit it off. Depending on your frame of mind. If you are looking for drinks and dinner, then that's great, HOWEVER, if you're just looking to fuck, no BS is required. Just do it. Save time ~~ just do it. No name required. :blowjob:

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yes thats so true most want to meet a few times first what the hell if you meet for drinks everyone is all on the same page let the fun start not maybe next time we have to be frinds first bs

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This is an interesting topic, we have been around the room on and off for a long time and have only recently met a couple near enough to us and that we have become comfortable with through conversation to have a first meeting with them soon. I being the Mr am perfectly happy with jumping into it on the first meeting but respecting the wishes of the Mrs (of both parties I belive the first meeting is going to be just that) When we found this site we stuck with it because the people for the most part seemed genuine, understanding and helpfull. Are we not "real swingers" because we think that some of the human emotional aspect of sex is important. If we just wanted a hole or a pole to grind well I think they sell dolls for that.. For us at least we will stick to comfort levels. But I suppose with any group mainstream or other wise ther can be certain levels of snobery. Sorry to not live up to some of your expectations of what a "true swinger" should be....

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Wasn't trying to say anything is wrong with the lifestyle, nor of having friends. We were just wondering if there were any other people out there like us who just care to MEET, GREET, FUCK AND GO!.

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We agree with cute lil gurl 100%

Very well said---------

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We agree..some couple, people, you just have an attraction that requires you be friends(lol), but then there are those that you get along with and just wanna get freaky with but have nothing in common....we hear..thats cool too for those that want that.

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I see no problem here either way. I have friends here that I value and once we meet feel sure that something will happen quickly. After being here for awhile you get comfortable with people here. Now for the fuck, suck, and go. I have no problem with that either. If I can go to a house party or club and do it with strangers with just a moments notice based on attraction I can do it just about anywhere. I feel it is up to the comfort level of the people involved.

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I'm good either way. I've met folks in on-premise clubs and at parties and we've fucked and never seen each other again. Never had an ongoing thing with a couple but I've had female FWB and it was good. Depends on the people and the circumstances.

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I must agree with most here. What nonsense of "no chemistry"? WTF? Come on this about recreational sex/fucking. I have a relationship with my wife. I love my wife and don't want to leave her, she just enjoys some nice fucks and I enjoy watching photographing it for her. Nothing more.

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Makes sense too..we can enjo that as well if in them situations i guess. Hasnt happened for us...yet, going to a club. We havnt been able to find a club or meet people that go to them clubs yet.

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You're dayum right hun...things will happen fast...
:dance: :sing: :naughty:

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love to join you

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I think we all agree that we all have those urges to just let that . . . i wanna say vibe, let loose. And if you find someone who has the same interests and need. It would be alright to suck fuck and go. But if your just meeting up to hang out with the thought of maybe hooking up and that "vibe" per-say occurs, then why would you not? Unless your beliefs are otherwise. Ya diig? It's all on the feeling and urges you get. =]

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The nice thing about this lifestyle is there is something for everyone. If you are looking to meet, fuck, and go, there are plenty of couples that are into that. There are also plenty of couples that would like to be friends with benefits. It's all good.

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let meet

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i dont need to be friend for sex, for me its the hottest thing about sex to do it with a stranger and older man!

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Couldn't agree more. Seems simple to us, but it seems they all want this on so many levels it isn't really fun anymore.

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WOW, what a thread, not sure how I missed it all this time!

NOTHING in life is all about sex to us and being swingers is no different. Any way it's sliced, we are humans not animals. Just as we have needs and desires we also have feelings and the need for communication.

Yes swinging is recreational sex not making love but if I want to simply get off I will pull my lil toy box out and choose from an array of colors and sizes to take care of my needs. But I refuse to treat other humans/swingers as objects to satisfy my sexual appetite.

Best friends? It has happened but not a requirement before swinging but a cordial friendship is required before sex happens. If I wouldn't invite you into my home or out for dinner at a favorite restaurant, I certainly would not invite you into my panties!!!

Smooches,
Gin

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I have known many people who I find sexy because I know them as friends/ acquaintances. Most of us are not drop dead gorgeous, but there are personality traits- they way we laugh, smile, or tell a joke, that are sexy. Getting to know someone before the play is necessary to find those sexy quirks.

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Well I guess I am old fashioned I would like to get to know someone a little before I commence with a very personal act...This is giving and sharing sexual gratification not a spit chew and screw thing unless of course you have no respect for yourself...

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Ouch no respect for ourselves? That's cold coming from someone who doesn't even know us,hypocrite.We posted this thread because we wanted to see if others shared our views or fantasies not hear from old men who want to make it sound degrading or disrespectful to anyone.As for the rest of the post at-least they showed class and respect with their responses even if they disagreed.I guess my question to ncdoughhead would have to be who put you in charge of what the (swinger) lifestyle is?The world is made up of many different types of people and just maybe YOU should learn to RESPECT that.

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I oouldn't have said it better myself ohmystomach, well said! Personally, I share your originally stated interests and agree with that post.

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thank you,wasn't trying sound ugly but SOME people just strike a nerve with that holier than thou attitude they spew.Makes you wonder?Doesn't it hurt your ass to be riding that fence?I think they should smoke a peace pipe and get over themselves

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anyone up for a meet greet fuck and go this coming weekend?(except you dough head)looking to get a room in Charlotte area and play for few hours,,,,respectful peeps only.

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First we never said LIFE was all about sex,nor do we feel anyone is getting used,everyone has right to their our opinion but to say its using or treating anyone as just an object for our own sexual gratification is way off base.We treat everyone in every situation in life with kindness and respect regardless of whether we are just meeting a stranger or our closest friends all get the same respect we ourselves think we deserve.Like we said the thread was intended to see if their was likeminded peeps out there,not be judged or scorned.We except you for you,shouldn't you afford us the same?peace out

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I don't think ncdoughboy was personally attacking anyone, he made an open statement just as we all have here. This is a good thread please lets not ruin it by name calling or by openly excluding anyone to degrade them. If this continues I will bring the thread down!......Gin

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I simply stated our perception and how we view things, I did not say those who thought differently were wrong in their thinking more that their thinking is wrong for us! I understand exactly what you have been saying and your choice of swinging is different from ours, that is how the ball bounces.....Gin

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thank you

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I have been on this site for some time and I think it does lean towards friendship first kind of swinging.While I have no problem with the wham bam thank you Mam kind of swinging. (I have had many of these encounters in my life). It may be harder to meet these type of swingers here than on other sites such as Craigs List or On Line Booty Call. Good luck in your search and I hope you find people that are here for the same interests as you seek.

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Im really for a meeting first over a drink talk see where it goes. Make a plan to make everyone happy and let it go from there slowly or at supersoinic speed. Every situation is differnt. I am anxious for replies in Phoenix Az Thx Bob

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Great question, the postings here seem to be a mix of both "fuck and go" and "friends w/benefits". Everyone will have their own comfort level, boundaries and each situation will be different. We think friends with benefits suits us more but, who knows we could meet the right couple.
cpl4more6300

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Seems the older we get the harder it is to find quality couples to couple with

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We have lots of friends, but not enough people to just fuck and enjoy for the sake of sex!! Anyone wanna fuck and just enjoy fucking?? Send a note our way and lets get together, soon.

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It seems that those who have been in the lifestyle longer or have more experience MAY be more comfortable with a being able to make a good assessment from an initial meeting. I think for those of use with less experience, the friends first method is a way to try to develop some idea if that sex would be a positive experience or a negative one.

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This has sure been an interesting read. This site has a community/friendship feeling about it which was what appealed to us. There are other sites which are more blunt and seem to lean towards the meet, greet and fuck. For us the experience we seek includes the mind not just the body, the flirt, the inuendo, the lead up. We choose to meet and hope for that spark and to learn the quirts we all have that make us attractive as individuals. I think on premis clubs are a great place for meet, greet and fuck and there is definately room for both. We are in the lifestyle to experience situations we can not do together as a couple and some require a basic comfort and trust level with those involved and some require a perfect stranger never to be seen again...LOL We also enjoy friendship without the sex with couples where there is no spark, a circle of friends where we can discuss different subjects not brought up in our vanilla circles so to speak.

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If insulted you by sounding holier than you that was not my intention..You have to live your life by your rules and others by theirs I see it is not a good idea to freely associate on this type of blog...To this end i apologize and offer a friendly hello..I was only talking in general not about you or your wants needs or sexual free ness..

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What a great post, and lots of great responses as well. We can see both sides of the argument, so here's our 2cents: We are a 100% devoted couple and we are into the lifestyle for the recreational sex. A real friendship takes time to develop, so to say we'll meet first and have drinks etc. before (in our opinion) is a little disingenous, how many meetings will it take befoe we become friends? Quite frankly we don't have that much time. We have friends, some swing some don't. Although we always make a first meeting a requirement before sex. For us it's a gut check, we're looking for people we wouldn't mind having as friends. There has to be some type of attraction. We can't explain it, but there are some couples we met, they were nice people, but the chemistry wasn't right, others from the first hello we couldn't wait to get them in the sack. We have had some friendships develop, others we've never seen again.
Ric & Teri

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We agree with Ric & Teri...we've been on this site for a while and true we did find some people and couples that are cool as ever ..we also had to be realistic about the situation. We are on an adult site not for friendship, but for sexual pleasure, some for experience and other's for advise...but we are on here because we are all adults and want to enjoy playing with other adults...that's it...friendships develop through time and can be very fun and very convenient, but for those that have a demanding life outside the lifestyle that could also be too demanding or not convenient enough to proceed further...and the reality of the situation is that no matter the pinions of everyone on here...eventually it all breaks down to everyone fucking something or someone...Plus you may not want to be friends with someone outside of the lifestyle depending on your personal and professional life...that's why a lot of people have there preferences on their site...friends or not we are all seeking to get fucked some how...if friendship is in the cards we'll get there...

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We are not seeking sex, we are here and have been in the lifestyle for a long time seeking to surround ourselves with others who are open minded to the concept of swinging and we have been very successful.

If others are too busy in their personal lives (how can one be too busy to stay in contact) or if their interest in us is for sex only, that simply isn't for us.

Not only is it more safe to know more about those you choose to swing with, the pleasure is better as you communicate and learn more about what everyone desires.

This is what we choose and how others choose to swing is just that, their choice and not to be judged right or wrong.

Smooches,
Gin

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i also like to be freinds i was sitting at home alone the other night horrny as hell went on craigs list answered an ad for a bi male im not gay or bi but i thaught what the hell BLOW AND GO no talk he drained my balls and left best blow job ive ever had

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For us it depends on the situation but if you are coming our way you better bring your "A" game and be prepared to go with the flow. Sometimes we meet, greet, fuck, and go and sometimes we talk, have a drink, and move in slowly. It is all a matter of everyone's comfort level in the situation. Because if you aren't comfortable you aren't horny!

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Honestly, when I was single (fem half here) I would really hav to be mentally attracted to someone before gettin into bed with them and I am still that way now.

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fem half here, I would have to say i agree but disagree. For some its a physical thing and all I want is to fuck and go our separate ways. Then there are times I want to get to know something about my play mate.

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No kidding Just want to hkp and get laid fullfill fantasy and suck some cock

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How many of us have been to a club and found yourself in the middle of an orgy and only knowing 1 or 2 ppl from the group. That is not even a meet greet and fuck situation, it is just fucking.

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I totally agree

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Then why are you on here

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I'll swing both ways. I live over a 120 miles from most parties and clubs. This holds true for most of my FWB's. Also holds true for my fuck now talk later's. Because I'm in town only a day or two,long term friends are not as easy to make and keep. Unless we talk on line. If none of my FWB's are at a party I may look for something now. If they find me so much the better. Even with these, 3 months or 6 down the road, you can rehook up at a party.
What I call Dating, Doing the friends first, is not as easy when I need to travel or they do, 300 plus miles for lunch, dinner and a night out dancing. I have and will again. Just sometimes there should be less talking and more doing.

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Its not always just about fuck and go this is a real lifestyle for most, not always just about sex. Just my opinion.
gary

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So very true, Gary

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We think you should at least meet and talk and loosen up to see if you are even compatible for sexual encounters...you can be absolutely GORGEOUS,but if you open your mouth and STUPIDITY rolls out...that is not AT ALL attractive and sometimes a true turn-off!!!Or if you are cocky or arrogant it is also a turn off...so it is important to see if you get along enough to relax and have fun with all of this!!!!!!!

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we do both, there are benefits on both fronts, as long as erotic fun is involved as well as safety then either can be intriguing thoughts,adventures, and experiences

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Well said brandil, I thougroughly agree.

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Hi there ;)
We are a couple living in Fresno CA. We we're just looking at peoples comments on this website that we just signed up for. We both really liked and agreed with ALL of your comments! If you are close to us here in Fresno, and like our pictures, please connect with us! You seem like a nice normal couple with a human touch. Refreshing on this site.

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Maybe, if anyone is close by, maybe we can talk about, why we are all in bed together.
:comeplay:

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I(fem half)like this site and are really interested in action,but it seems that there aren't many people on here in our area ready or willing to meet...and again....seems some won't even give us the chance to meet them...Thier loss cause we are THAT fun!!!LOL

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I have to agree. First, that this site is the best and most fun. Second, it is hard to actually meet someone. Come on out and play! Let's not just talk about it.

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I (the male half) has problems being or trying to be friends with people that are younger than my kids and some as young as my grandkids. For me if the urge is there and I can fuck a 20 something yrold I will with no regrets, but to be friends with them first is not my idea, all we have in common is her pussy and my dick getting together. Let the fun begin

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In my opinion, the Lifestyle is more meet, fuck and move on than anything else.
If someone is looking for friends - there are websites dedicated to that.
If someone is looking for folks to hang with and go out to dinner - there are websires for that.
THIS is a Swingers/Lifestyle website - let's fuck!

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ever notice the ones who want to meet greet fuck n go are mostly single males that have commented on yes thats the way it should be ????....us personally we want to know who the ppl are. hell if i wanted a meet n greet fuck n go i can pay a hooker on the street corner and do it that way. just about as safe as meeting up with someone stripping fucking and getting our throats slashed or shot. i think thats why most ppl want to meet and see how they act in public or how they are..... so go ahead do what ya want its your life not ours, your the ones playing with fire not noone else. but let me throw this at ya real quick......just think about those poor girls that wanted a meet n fuck on craigslist and got murdered, some cpls go there and post to ......so sit back and think on your life of a fuck n go never know you may meet the wrong cpl

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I 100% agree.
Life can be dangerous.
Every time I read in the paper about a carjacker slashing someone's throat in a Wal-Mart parking lot, it makes me want to change my ways and start shopping at Target.

No, I'm not trying to be a smart ass - just making a point.

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Not everyone wants friendships... they want fuck partners who are safe; this site allows people with common interests to do just that. Most of the comments on this topic are made by couples, and secondly single men... and most have not said yes its the way it should be but expressed their opinions. I do not recall anyone mentioned picking up hookers, but if you think thats the only way to meet, greet, fuck and go your mistaken. I've met a couple of people from here who do just that...when they are in town we meet up, have dinner, fuck and go. What's wrong with that? We are consenting partners whom play safe.

Besides you don't need Craigs to meet the wrong person, I've met them at established parties.... one couple who advertised parties on a few swing sites were actually more into porn making and recruiting participants asking them to sign releases. So nut jobs are everywhere.

It's all personal preference.

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again sharon your not reading they never said anything about going to dinner ...... they said meet greet fuck n go nothing is said about going to dinner . once again your not looking at the point thats being made your just commenting..... i said some cpls use craigslist . and i never said i wanted a hooker ... i said if i wanted a mmet greet fuck n go i would go get one... but yall do how you want your right on one thing though its personal preference and this really shows peoples true colors this topic and you really know who to stay away from

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Sorry but I did not SAY anything about you wanting to pick up a hooker, please re-read my statement. Seems like when someone expresses their opposing opionion on a post of yours you get offended... It's not meant that way at all.

BTW, if I missed your point, what was it?

Sharon

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Please read my statement also, my wife and I go to some clubs in our area where everyone is screened to get in or join. Our club has a couple orgy rooms where all are invited. I dont need to be friends with a 20 yr old or a 40 yrold when I am 65 and just want to fuck, nor does my wife. We are swingers and the club we go to is a swingers club, if I see a 20 something yr old that strikes my fancy and I ask her to fuck and she says yes im going to fuck her, same goes for my wife if she wants to do a 20 something yr old more power to her. As far as just meeting someone right off the street it wont happen not with us. SWINGING IS RECREATIONAL SEX....... I dont have to know someone forever to fuck her brains out or she fuck me till my brains falter.

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Sorry Sharon I didnt mean to reply to your post I was replying to anyone that thinks swinging is anything more than recreational sex

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point is noone will meet up with a stranger and fuck thats the point ..... you have to atleast get to know them not just jump right in

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I am not a single nor do I support Craigslist or the ladies of the streets. I am infact old enough to have kids older than you, in fact I do, I also have a granddaughter that is close to your age, and what do I have in common with kids of your age or younger, my stiff dick and her hot pussy. If I see a woman in her 20s at our club and she wants to have pity on an old maan I will surely fuck her the best way I know how.

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have you ever been in a club with an open orgy room. you will be lucky to know whos dick is in you if your having fun.

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At swinger clubs, there are sometimes you do not know or see the person again. It happens more than what you think it does. Sometimes it is just "jump right in" especially if you go into an open room where anything goes. Not everyone is into that scene, but many are.

Sharon

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I agree sharon with some things. there is 2 kinds of swingers out there ones that want to just fuck and go home and others that live the life style, there is a differance. yeah sex is always a bonus but are we going to meet someone and say we are just going to fuck. No we are going to see where it leads and make a choice when the time comes. Now am I not saying we have not had sex on first date nope because we have, but that is after spending time with them either at dinner or bar or where ever it might be. No matter what we keep in touch with with them for a while at least. This can go on forever back and forth noone is really wrong just differant opinions. Some people have more options to meet some are bolder some are shy, cautious and some just dont get the point at all. Now that that is said we are more on the cautious side but do we have a hell of alot of fun OMG yes. you wont catch us in an orgy room we want to know who is touching us and that is our way not everyones. We have been in a orgy before but everyone knew everyone and it was at our house. So come on peeps im waiting to be slammed on this not really lmao yall play nice
Gary

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Sharon and I go to this one monthly party that is an open room style. Of all the times we have been there no-one has ever just jumped rite in. There usaully is some talking and some socialization and then the fun starts. But I can tell you that even know that there can be one big pile of people there. I always am awhere of who's hands are on me. I do like this party because I can meet new people and have my fun with them without having to wine and dine them. We do have a couple of people that are our friends who we keep up with outside of sex. As Gary stated, We each have our own prefferences and that is what it all is about.

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This is one i wont agree with at all! The very first time we decided to go to a club in new orleans we was on the tour of the club. When we got to the orgy room it was wall to wall people in there, but when we both looked down we both saw a guy crawl around and lick another guy in the asshole. So we will know who is there and who is touching us! No strange dick coming this way period!
gary

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Yes todd exactly but you do get to talk to them and find out a few things about them first. We have talked to some people that start out cocky and full of them selves and one even said he loves his job refering to sex. That is the type of people that wont get to talk to amanda at all. It doesnt take very long to figure out some ones personality. How many people can say they would let someone fuck their wife or girlfriend if they have no respect for women. Not me, I want to know this ahead of time not after the fact. I do have a story on this one also that im sure will come out soon.
gary

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When we are at these parties Gary, First we do not go in with any expectations of getting laid. Then I let Sharon decide who she plays with. If something does not feel rite to me, I voice my opinion to her and she will step back and look at the situation. It is the same with her if she does not feel comfortable about something I am about to do. In any case, I always keep and eye on her for her safety and to make sure she is being treated the way she desires. She has takin on some cocky and pushy guys before, And I have to say that they did not leave with a smile on their faces. We trust each others judgement enough to go different rooms at a party. I know it is not everybodies way, But it works for us. We do not fault anyone for their swinging preferences. But if we are ever down your way, Dinner and drinks sounds like a good deal to us. Keep up the thought provoking post, We enjoy them.

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lol Todd on the provoking part. Yes i am glad that it works great for yall being seperate rooms and all. I do believe everyone here will agree that sharon can take care of herself lmao As far as dinner sounds good to me but we already know alot about yall just by what you write lol. Now on to our little story on this. Not all is dominate or do they feel they can speak out if something is happening that they dont like. Thats why i feel people need to hear this and stop and think.
We went to our first house party in 2006 it was explained that it would be a get together coctail/ birthday party. We went still not knowing what to expect. Within 5 to 10 minutes of everyone getting there everyone seperated to differant rooms. There was 2 other couples that left fast didnt say a word. We didnt run away but we did enjoy going around and watching. We did not play at this time. Later on we contacted couples that we thought was going to be fun for us.We went to one couples house about a month later. we was there long enough for me to make a jack and coke and get one sip before clothes was off. They had a huge sectional couch and we all started messing around there. The next thing I know he was taking amanda to another room, I was just fixing to get up when she made him go back to the living room. Even though we was in the same room we couldnt see each other. This went on for a while then we all decided to take a break. I looked at amanda and i could tell something was wrong, so we went outside to talk. I found out he was pulling her hair and not in a good way slapping her in the face calling her a bitch and whore and so on. She was too shy and didnt know what to do really so she said nothing while it was happening. We both came back in and told them we was leaving and when i went to get my bottle of jack it was all gone. I know it was full and it was my bottle it had my name on it from a club the night before. I asked what happened to it and his response was i dont know why dont you look in the refrigerator. Ok now im scratching my head but i look anyways but i be damned it wasnt in there either. So we just got the rest of our things they didnt steal and left. This could have been alot worse if we was in seperate rooms. The whole time im thinking it was my fault for not getting to know them better. They was angels at the house party 2 on 2 nope. We found out later that he had put many bruises on many differant women after that nite. A few of them told us they was extremely afaid he was going to do something alot worse to them. He is still out there doing the same thing. So everyone stop and think how this could ultimately end. Its not always the best nites of sex you remember the most, it could also be your worst nightmare.
gary


RE: Meet, Greet, Fuck and Go
Gary.... There are always some assholes out there unfortunately, and I've run into them before myself. I think that is why I am vary particular on the parties I go to and whom I am with. The orgy parties, yeah I've been to many... participated once for a reason; became a voyeur for another.
When I was a single swinger I partied galore and swang the night away but since becoming a couple it has become easier to develop into a different type of swinger, one who is more secure and confident. But even as a single swinger I always had an escort with me whom knew my limits and watched over me just incase someone got out of hand.

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Todd.... Me take on the cocky guy :angel: He really did have it "cumming" *coughs*

This guy thought he was all that and a bag of chips, and I guess he found out that he's kind of stale after he couldn't even get close with me lol

Sharon

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Yes sharon I understand that assholes are every where! That is why I stand firm in this. It wont happen again to her! Not everyone exspecially when they are new to this feels confident enough to speak out. She will jump someones ass now and not afraid at all to do it.
By the way Tony im refering to a differant kind of asshole not you lmao
gary

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THAT is exactly right gin!I believe that there has to be a level of trust and security...if you do the meet,greet,fuck,and go thing with the wrong people..you might end up with a bad situation...stalking or aggressiveness or ill feelings....who knows?????

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Hmmm meet fuck and go? Hell we can not even get anyone to reply with kiss my ass or fuck off it seams.
How ever we like to meet for drinks and go from there. Yes we have played on first meet several times when we clicked. I do not think we could just say hey lets meet at hotel 6 and fuck. Wife is legally blind and needs to talk to male or female for a little while to know she is interested. We have done the club thing and it is one of the big every weekend clubs near Charlotte and still did not do the meet fuck and go thing which a lot of them always use umbrella to keep from drowning.lol

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Can I be your first hello, here? Welcome to our group. B Bopp

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