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LADIES DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?


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LADIES DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?

Was the saying "it aint the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean" made up by a woman to console her lover?

How big is too big? How long is too long?

webMD says the average length is 6" - 8". I fall midway then. I haven't left a lover dissatisfied and have been told by several that I have a large penis.

looking at adult films though makes me feel a little on the small side.

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RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
I HEAR YA IVE BEEN TOLD I WAS HUGE BUT IM JUST UNDER EIGHT AND YOU SEE SOME OF THOSE GUYS ON THE PORNOS AND I FEEL LIKE A TEN YEAR OLD
ROB

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
For the life of me I will never understand this fixation about size.I don't care how much cock you got (or don't),if you don't know how to use it,it is useless as far as I'm concerned.
NO,I'm not saying that cuz I got a small cock(for those who don't know me yet),I would say I'm bout average...but you can bet your life I know how to use it as well,just ask anyone who does know me.

Have a great day,and an even better evening,
Russ

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
100% Agree with you Russ.. I've always said, it's not the size of a tool, its the way you use it. If a small pinky size vibrator can do the trick so can a below average cock. Also a lot of well endowed men think that because they are big and can bottom up a woman he's doing a great job...not!
So, all in all it's all about the person not the size.

Sharon

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
I can't speak for all women, but I think it's a combination of many things including: length, thickness, skill, creativity, and experience that make a man a good lover. For me, YES, size does matter--however, I'd much rather a have skilled lover with average endowment than a very well hung lover who thinks he's a superstar in bed just because he's big. In general, I prefer thickness over length, but either way you have to know what to do with it. I've had lovers who were smaller than average, yet left me completely satisfied every time because they were skilled in other sexual ways, such as oral or foreplay. Likewise, I've had lovers who were bigger than average and thought they just because they were big, they didn't have to put in much effort...so I had to teach them what I liked and it just took time to figure out what worked for us.

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
tastes vary, and size certainly isn't everything, but I can tell you from personal experience that size matters quite a lot to quite a lot of people

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
size matters more to the man as if a big one makes them feel better about themselves but if they have confidence an avg size and the ability to use will work just fine

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
I personally prefer average (6-9in.)
But cock size is not a prerequisite for meeting us or for having sex.
I like a man who has kindness in his heart, a brain in his head and respect for his fellow human beings.
I don't care how pretty and impressive the equiptment is,
As a matter of fact, Too big is more of an issue with me, than too small.
Anything over 9 hurts and is not pleasurable for me.
I am not a porn star and have no desire to have my parts stretched to baseball capacity.
That being said,
I have to be honest...
Size does matter,
But not the size of the dick,
The size of the ego,
is what I'm talkin about.
If you have a big ten in. and think you're God's gift.
Don't call me,
I have enough gifts thanks.
Have a great day,
Huggs,
Karen

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
My hubby is eight inches long and very thick and I LOVE his cock but I've had a male recently that was about seven and very skinny and that hurt! It wasn't fun at all and he just kept pounding my bottom out until I made him stop... so it's not length but thickness for me!

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
I'm an average 6" but have some nice thickneess. Kat has always told me I am enough. We met a couple where the guy was 8" and Kat thought she couldn't handle all of that. Long story short, he was up to his balls and she loved it. We both agree that size doesn't matter but it's what we do with what we have.

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
i think size does matter but so does know how to use it. i have had various sizes and i would have to say that its just right at about 8 in and 2 in thick. but if u want fun in both holes the smaller ones work a little better

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
my boyfriend is 7.5 and a nice thickness and he knows how to use it i met this guy who was about 5 and very thin and i didnt feel that at all but he satisfied me orally and with foreplay u have to know how to use it

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
A guy and a gal were about to have sex for the first time, when he dropped his drawers, she saw he was sporting a small penis, her reply was "just who in hell do you think you are going to satisfy with that little thing?" the guy replied with a smile on his face "me."

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
hehe

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
No size doesnt matter, if a man knows how to satisfy a woman, that is. If you are a bad date then it does not matter how big u are. So i say men learn what that thing is for!!!!

RE: LADIES,....DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? HOW BIG IS TOO BIG?
I am noticing a lot of comments like no size doesn't matter as long as...
The truth of that statement is YES in penetrative sex size DOES matter, but as long as oral or some other activity is good you can deal with the trade off.
I know thats more of an observation, and I am not complaining, but just want to say to those people being honest with a man who cannot fully satisfy with penetrative sex is certainly far from easy, but you will get more benefit in the long run from saying so.

Now I am not small by average standards, I am between 7-8 inches depending on how horny I am and I have satisfied size queens loving 10 or more inches I can also bottom out a girl at times.

I am in my mind and others a good fuck, and I have heard such things randomly with my friends being friends with certain girls and spreading the word which is all cool. But if I am with a size queen or anal lover I definately want to know it, I like stretching my own ass to the limits. I often sit for hours taking my 24" dildo thats thicker than me, a fist to the elbow and if I met a girl who tells me the same then I wanna share that intensity with her all the more as it is a fetish of my own.



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