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Question:

Friends or Haven t I seen you somwhere before?

Obviously when meeting offline there are generally a lot of questions we all have.

1) Where should we meet?
2) What should we expect?
3) Is it OK to kiss on the first date?

Please take a moment to share your thoughts?

Answers:

RE: Friends or Haven't I seen you somwhere before?
In my opinion,

1)there is no right or wrong places to meet.If you are plannin on meeting others,I would hope you would chat with them online first,at which point ya'll could discuss where to meet...restaurant for dinner,in a park,etc.

2)No expectations,other than friendship,this way nobody is let down and everyone can have fun.Just let the meeting progress as it may.My personal preference is to let the ladies decide if there is gonna be any playin,by letting them start...nothing wrong with just sittin back and watchin what is sure to turn into "INTERACTIVE PORN"...hehehehe...but thats just me.

3)Again,no right or wrong answer...just depends on what everyone involved is looking to get out of the meeting.Just go with what you're comfortable with.

Russ

RE: Friends or Haven't I seen you somwhere before?
we would agree, whole heartlely, that seems like the best way to approach a meeting.

RE: Friends or Haven't I seen you somwhere before?
I always try to make the first meet in a restaurant, just so if things don't work out there is an easy way out. It's a habit that I have always had since I starting swinging as a single girl.
Always went in with no expectations, so in the end if something did happen, GREAT....but if it didn't there was no let down.
There have been times I have just left a restaurant and went to a hotel room it's just a matter of if there is a connection or not!

Sharon

RE: Friends or Haven't I seen you somwhere before?
I always meet women or couples in a bar. We get to know each other over a few drinks. After awhile I will excuse myself to go to the restroom. I will tell them to leave if they have a bad feeling. When I get back they have always been there so we start discussing our evening plans. As far as what to expect, just expect interesting conversation. If there is an interest things will take care of themselves. As for kissing you can discuss that over drinks

RE: Friends or Haven't I seen you somwhere before?
Dayum, I like the way you think getsumnow :yeehaw: xoxo Shirley

RE: Friends or Haven't I seen you somwhere before?
That is a great suggestion on how to handle it....thanks

RE: Friends or Haven't I seen you somwhere before?
First meet where there is a comfort zone and no one will feel that they are out of control. Try to discuss expectations with all party before arrival then there won't be as much uncertainty. As for kissing, take that as it comes because that takes special chemistry and it might just not be there.

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