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Do ya ll remeber your first swinging experience?

Ours was with a single guy. We really didn't know alot about the lifestyle, at that time. We had a relationship with him for almost a year. Then he started getting possessive, so we parted ways. Then we went to st, and met a wonderful cpl!! And good things have been happening ever since. Tell us about your first experience in swinging? xoxo Shirley


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RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
We had our first with someone here, and unfortunately things went sour. It seems he just wanted to fulfill his fantasy with Mrs Jones and move on. He was talking and always available until the night we finally got together, then he basically disappeared, didn't want to talk or anything. Talk about asshole factor. Our second was also from this site, and he really knows his shit... Maybe even too well. Win some, lose some. [ lol] . We are still learning, and while men come out of the woodwork for her everywhere we go, there seems to be no available women close enough to enjoy for my interests. We aren't looking for a huge client base so to say, just a male (found), a couple, and a woman to share...

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
my wife at the time thought we could experience another woman. so we decided that it had to be someone for both of us. So she decided to find someone to join us. It was a total disaster because it turned out that this woman was not into men at all. she wouldnt let me even touch her. And to top it off after a few months my then wife left me for the other woman. talk about a shot to your ego. But I am still here.

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Sorry to hear that hun. That's why communication is so vital in this lifestyle. Clark & I decide together who to meet. It's a must for us to talk to others as a cpl. We don't swing alone. We hope your next experience will be rewarding. xoxo Shirley

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
We should talk. My Honey and I love each other and really enjoy sex. We have been talking about doing this for some time. I will get some more pictures up. We should meet.

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Yes sweeties, let's talk...xoxo Shirley

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Looking forward to it. Do you want to send photos & stuff by regular e-mail? My Honey will be here in a few....we are going to have sex for the next 2 hours...then we'll get back on here. Looking forward to being with you guys!

Alan

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Hey Alan, send regular e-mail through st, k? Shirley

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Sorry sweeties but, it's against st rules to post e-mail address. Cuz you never now who will be contacting you. It's a scary world out there, so be careful. xoxo Shirley

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Thanks for the heads up on e-mails

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
i havent had mine yet!:( come try me :)

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
My first official "swing" experience was with a couple here, and it was a crash and burn...we had fun, it was just a lot of things were not disclosed up front before playing and being my first time and a single girl swinging I never thought of asking!

Sharon

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Look at you now Baby girl, my goodness you have learned so very much and constantly share your knowledge with all of us!! There certainly is so much more to learn about swinging than simply knowing how to have sex! The thought of you or any single female out there starting to swing scares me, so many things can go wrong, it's a scary world.

Smooches,
Gin

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Is there anyway to delete or edit a post on ST in cases like this?

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
us it was with good friends started with strip poker

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
any one can give me some advice?
i like swing but my wife refuse it all the time an what should i do to convince her? thank

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Well, rag435, if your wife is totally against it, then I don't think she wants to be in the lifestyle. I think you need to discuss your sexual desires with your wife.

Swinger as a cpl, means both partners agree. Now, if you choose to swing separately, (with or without) your wives consent, then you should state that in your profile.

If there ever comes a time when one of us chooses not to be apart of this lifestyle, then we both will leave it. We entered swinging as a cpl & will leave as a cpl.

Now, this is just my opinion...Shirley

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
It certainly is scary, I'm glad I always played it smart and that's why I always jump in when someone asks about meetings for the first time etc... because they need to know the good stuff, but also the bad and what to look for!

Thanks Gin for all the kind words

Sharon

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Yes & no lol If your a group owner , And the post is in your group you can at anytime as far as an individual deleting a post in someones group , not at this time lol Swingtowns administration & group owners have that option... I'll be glad to delete your post, Tell me which part? Only the start of a post or thread can be edited by group owners... Or Swingtowns... I'm an expert at deleting posts :lol: That would be a cool option for me tho lol Cuz I like to get tore-up from the floor-up lol & end up lookin like a jackass chewing on a cockle-burr :rofl: Tator... Well I better get my ass back over here to the intertainment section lol :beer: :cheers:

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Well what can I say but, 2 pitchers of strawberry margaritas, a shot of tequila to ring in the new year and the invention of "naked shots" to ring in the new year. And add to that a close lady friend of ours fresh from a break up and you get one great threesome. The funny thing is we talked about groundrules the night before even though we didn't know it was coming. lol, we must have great threesome karma.

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Well if it were me, I'd AskGin or cute_lil_gurl
That's be Gin-Gin or lil miss lol & Shirley ain't to shabby either lol Them 3 keep it in prospective for me... I do know this, no one want's an issue forced upon them!!!...

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
As a single it is very scary out there, especially for women. I always recomend meeting at a public place first. My first experience was with a couple but I only played with her while he watched.
Dave

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
The invention of "naked shots", ok I gotta ask, is that really a drink? Or a drink of sweet nature? lol
I'm happy for y'all :clapping:...xoxo Shirley

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
Yes, it is a scary world out there. Yes, meeting at a public place is very important, so you can make a quick get-away if needed.
I feel, if you are a single & wanna play with another cpl, let the male lead of the cpl, works out better for us. Then Clark just goes wild!! :lol: xoxo Shirley

RE: Do ya'll remeber your first swinging experience?
The invention of "naked shots", ok I gotta ask, is that really a drink? Or a drink of sweet nature? [ lol]
I'm happy for y'all [ ...xoxo Shirley
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it was sweet nectar err i mean sweet nature shirley xoxo



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