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Crossdressers What do people think of them?

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Crossdressers What do people think of them?

I had an experience the other day. I had come across what I thought to be an attractive lady, only to find out that she was a he! Now, Im not one to judge others, hey its just a thing ya know. Ive wondered what makes certain people comfortable doing whatever they find turns them on or is crossdressing more of something else? Makes me wonder if theres something to that kinda thing. I also ran into a old man in Houston, Tx once that was a biker, saw him in a Whataburger on I10. He was most definately a man, but he just had on pink leather biker outfit and pink nails and Makeup. I know there are Cd's here on ST, so this begs the question..what do others really think of them and is it normal to want to try kinky and weird things?

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RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well, we have never met a cross-dresser, so I don't know. I wouldn't say "No" to that person before I got to know them. I think, we'd have to communicate further before making a decision. Just my opinion xoxo Shirley

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Maybe they just like the same sexy stuff women like???? LOL! We men are limited pretty much to boxers, speedos, ect. You women get to look and smell so sexy in your various attire, and maybe some men want to try it?? I don't know, maybe it goes deeper than that. Ive never really paid attention, but since seeing them up close and in public, maybe they are nearer and out more than we realize and not even know it.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I have met a few cross dressing people, even worked with one when I was a government employee. I sometimes wish I could do my makeup 1/2 as good as some of these men do, lol.
As to experimenting with a Transgender or Cross Dresser, I think if we hit it off and the chemisty is there I would. The idea of trying something different is always a turn on for me, plus being bisexual it may be the best of both worlds.

Sharon

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well, when i was in New Orleans Me and my friends decided to take in a strip club. And we were in there for 3 or 4 drinks and started to talk with these women and find out that we were in a female impersonators strip club. And we could not believe this cause they were so beautiful. So we convinced one of the strippers to pull there bottoms down. Low and behold there it was. And after talking with them most of them had boob jobs and one was actually taking female hormones to grow breasts. I still cant believe how beautiful they were.

Kelly

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I know a cross dresser. He's a great guy and a hot chic when he's dressed. The wife and I are going to do a show on cam with him one of these days soon.

I would really like to find a beautiful trans gender with breasts and a penis to play with us. The wife would love it too.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
If your wife is ok with it and you're comfortable with it than I say go for it.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well have known to cd's an there were fine people as far as weird or kinky go's we are all weird or kinky in some one's mined an at one time meet a trannie thought he was a she by the time I found out hell was to late to do anything but enjoy it an I did am BI so it wouldn't have been a problem any way

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Doesnt do anything for us at all, but good on those for whom it rings their bell.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
not my thing, don't think ol' girl would get into it on a sexual basis, probably friedship tho, depending on the person. i 'acted' in the local rocky horror picture show, from about 15 to 22 or so, met alot of people with all kinds of kinks and fetishes. hey, everybody needs a hobby.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
The great thing about this lifestyle is you can be whom ever and whtever you want to be. And should not be judged for it, to each his own. Personally we would shy away from someone like that. But that's just our preference not saying anything is wrong with them.
Dave and Mary

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
As a crossdresser I can say that there is more to the desire to dress than just kink. For me it was a desire that was there from the time I was little. I would much rather be a woman, but have to just settle for being as much of a woman as possible, whenever I get the chance! I love this site because it is full of open-minded people (reading the replies to your question sort of proves that), and it's extremely liberatig to express myself how I want to sexually.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Wow..Im amazed at the quick responses to the question. I was always curious what others thought, as I never really had an opinion on it one way or the other. It was just I was so utterly taken aback by the comfortableness and way these two had presented themselves to the public. I myself am not sure I could do that in public. That takes a big set of brass balls. I had wondered if there were more than I saw around that Ive never seen. As I said, I and or we don't judge others, and I can see where it could be confusing for them or others as that type of dressing is normally looked down at by our past generations. And this being a "sex" site, I thought it would be an appropriate place to pose a question like that.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well, I can't say that I go all out, but I've had my experience. I like to wear wedge heels, platorm sandals, and sometimes capris. I don't want to go transgender cause i'm quite grateful to be a guy. It's really not about the public's eye because a lot of people are turned off by crossdressers. I just enjoy it for the sex appeal and excitement for my own mind, and going against the mainstream of people. Anything that men can wear, women have an equivalent made for them, from jeans to tuxedos and it's acceptable to society. Why can't men do the same?

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I highly recommend Crossdressing to all my macho friends. Yes it does take a lot of courage to go out as I do and to allow your femininity to be seen by others. I have done the Marine Corps, The Vietnam war, Connected Steel as a Ironworker for twenty Years, been a natural bodybuilder all my life. nurturing my feminity is the best thing I have ever done for my health.

Too many men have been taught to believe that unhealthy living is what real men do. BULLSHIT.
Don't believe it. You will die befor your time.

Peace to you all.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Just have to say your pic is beautiful. I believe everyone should be free to be who they are and explore their sexuality free from stigma. Visually for me it is more appealing when they look very feminine and you have to take a second look to realize it is a man. I have seen some that look like men in womens clothes which is not as appealing for me. I do take my hat off to them as it is hard to go public and am not sure I would be as brave if the roles were ever reversed. Kudos

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well haven't ran into any cross dressers that I know of but you know somemen that are gay look better in some womans outfits then us women do. sorry but I have seen that and I mean to each his/own if you look good in ti flaunt it. You know they say a gay man is a girls best friend.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I applaud and appreciate your candid response Amber, it takes courage and true desire to be different within lifes given "politically correct" categories. I remember when I came out to being bisexual to my family... my kids understand it since this generation is more tolerant; but I'm not sure my parents understood or understand even now.

Does your family know of your lifestyle choice?

Sharon

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
my neighbor is a cross dresser and he loves it and you know a persons sexuality is all we realy own in this world

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I know a few cross dressing men, first cross dressers and drag queens and bi sexuals are all different. The cross dressers I know aren't gay, they love the way womens close feel. and just like the way it all feels. They do go to bars and allow men to talk after them but aren't into the sex with men. I allowed one of them to dress me up and learned a lesson. It's a lot of work for women to get dressed and made me feel bad for always feeling they take to long to get dressed.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
What bothers us about cross dressers is when they come to a site like this and create a profile as a couple when they clearly are not. other wise to each his or her own. Honesty is always the best in all aspects of life.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I work in an adult store(porn store sounds dirty),and I believe it would be hypocritical on my part to work there and still judge people.We see cross dressers,bisexuals(male & female),gay men,lesbians...and although my co workers are homophobic(great career choice if ya ask me),I am not.I accept people on their merits,not their sexual choices.Would we play with a crossdresser,YES,if the chemistry is there.We're actually looking forward to it.

Russ

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