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Hey ST, we have a question for you. Have you ever tried using a “hall pass”? If so how did you do it? We have always been with couples, same room and wonder if a hall pass can work. Is it for a set amount of time, one use anytime...do you discuss it afterwards or not? What do you do if one is successful and the other isn’t? Looking for perspectives, open to all responses but please let us know if you have tried this or thought about it. Thanks in advance.
How many of the ladies out there enjoy giving oral sex as much as they enjoy getting oral sex????
How many couples out there meet new couples for diner and drinks and decide that night to take things further? How many of you prefer to wait for a few meetings first?
I need some advice friends! How do I get my husband on board with all the fantasies I have of becoming a part of the lifestyle? We have almost been married a year, but have been together for about 4 years. He's told me he is concerned one of us could develop unwanted feelings for someone we play with, and that may potentially damage our relationship. I understand where he's coming from, but at the same time I feel we have built enough trust and love each other so much that it would never be a problem. I would never want him to be uncomfortable or do anything he's not ready for, but I'm DYING to have an experience at least once! Where do I go from here?!
We will be in Calgary on August 23. Any suggestions on where to go?
What is the most interesting toy(dildo or vibrator) that you have been pleasantly surprised with? We have many toys we barely use anymore, as most are similar to each other.
So I want some opinions and feedback here. My girlfriend and I are new to all this and have yet to do anything. We are not jealous, worried, or concerned about the other with another person. It is silly really, we are more self-conscious of our bodies. I can't or rather won't bring up her issues with herself since they are well...hers and she can do this if she feels the need. I can honestly say that do not I feel as if I am unattractive. Rather it is my size (wow big shocker there right?) like most other men. I am in no way BIG, I am average to small I would say. SO.... Does it matter? I have never had a problem giving my GF or any other woman multiple orgasms. But, I have always feel like with just a few more inches (Length
Is there a certain something you have been wanting to try but not sure how to approach the topic with your partner Or the topic just has not come up? Well now's your chance! Tell us what your fantasy is :)
What are your thoughts when it comes to full swaps? Same room or different room? And why?
All booked for New Horizons this saturday! First time going to a club! Any suggestions?
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