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Well its been a while but we're back and have seen some familiar people but we are still having some trouble finding people in our area that my better half and I can agree on. Not trying to sound stuck up or snobby in any way, we just want to have some kind of attraction to our playmates. Wither it be physical or mentally. Have you ever had difficulties finding a partner or partners that meet your requirements, or is this something that is kinda ridiculous to have as part of our "check list" when looking for a partner(s)? Please Comment below with your thoughts, experience or suggestions. Thanks.
We are brand new to potentially swinging, and have been actually dating about a month. Courtney has enjoyed women as well and so I think for this first times or so we would both like to be with a single woman. If there is a man around that's okay and in that case we are not comfortable with her being with him, however it is her fantasy to have me and her be with a woman. I hope this is acceptable to a couple if that is all there is, we're new and still feeling it out. I am not sure I want to see her with another man in this first event. Is that okay?
how do you jump in on meet and greets? I am very new and nervous
Hearing some mixed reviews about the new location of M4. Ok, ok.. Not going to sugar coat it.... its been all negative. Anyone have anything good to say about it? Or maybe some details on why itts so bad?
We are thinking about going to a bar in downtown Cincinnati July 20th. Anyone have any idea where a good place is to meet other couple's?
Who else enjoys a good spanking? Giving or getting? ?
Anyone planning to be at Desires this summer?
Hello! Thanks for taking a look at us. Recently, after years of marriage, my wife was wondering how I compared to other men in regards to size. I always thought I was avg. She then googled "penis size calculator" and ran my measurements (7.25 in length, and 6 inches in circumference.) Go ahead, look for yourself....Am I really in the 99th percentile? Anyway, she then found a link from Huff Post,on the perfect size women prefer, nd it looks like I'm just outside the perfect size. She then said I'd be perfect for a woman 5' 5" or shorter. She now gets super turned on when she thinks about having another woman having to take me in....so, that's why we're here...I don't know what to think of the numbers, but if you are looking for a good length AND girth to stretch your pussy....send us a msg.
I don’t like most guys, but… I am not interested in most guys and besides perhaps that what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all more special. (Great, thought provoking opener that shows a woman’s engaging personality. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. (Guys really, really like to hear that). Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings. What’s your story? What are you greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness.”
Had a couple reach out saying "We are probably interested". Checked them out and they seemed nice so respond in kind. Some time goes by and he gets back and wants to play with my wife but says his is not interested at this time. Didn't specify whether that meant with "me" or the LS in general.I believe it may be a real couple, but it came across as the Mrs doesn't play. Responded that we weren't interested and he should be more honest in his profile. He said I should do the same, even though ours says we're clearly looking for COUPLES and defended that they were "real" swingers and said I had an ego problem and blocked us.What would you think/do in this case?
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